Guys have feelings?!

Current mood: thoughtful
Category: Romance and Relationships

Ok, boys, don't hate me. I know my guy friends have feelings. That I can believe. But do all guys have feelings? And are they the same feelings that girls have? I just can't believe that some guys have feelings. Like the super "cool" guys and the rough around the edges manly men. Haha sometimes it seems to me like the only feeling some guys have is pride since it's the only thing some seem to care about wounding. The feelings that I'm talking about are pain (emotional), love, and missing someone. Are men capable of those? Besides the guys I know... but even with them, I'm not sure if they are capable of all of them. I guess Christian guys are, but even they don't show it sometimes. I hear my school's pastor always joking about how much pain guys are in when they fall in love and I'm like... really?! They are?! The concept of guys being in love, being lovesick, missing a girl, and feeling pain just seems so foreign to me. I mean yea I guess in theory its true, but it just seems so movie-like and we all know what a bunch of crap that is... hmmm I don't know where this is all coming from... I guess maybe just looking at certain guys I can't fathom them having any feelings at all. Sad, I know. On the other hand, and I've already written about this before, I've seen Russian men (and boys) show some serious feelings and emotions in the presence of God. And Russian males don't do that. That's why I love seeing men worship... it just breaks down all the stereotypes. so yea... so much for my ramblings... any thoughts?