Saturday, July 3, 2010

Are You a FireWORK or a FirePLACE?


If you really think about it, the most important quality of God is not His love, forgiveness, grace, mercy, comfort, power or anything else that He does or is... It's His Faithfulness... The fact that He doesn't just love, forgive, provide and heal every once in a while (when He feels like it or is in a good mood), but that He can always be counted on and trusted to do so steadily and consistently. He doesn't (and won't) stop.

So if we as His children are created in His image, then we too should be faithful in all we are and all we do towards ourselves, God, and the people in our lives. Face it, no man is an island, we were all created to be in different relationships throughout our lives and we all have a need to feel loved, accepted and validated in those relationships... Which got me thinking... In terms of "faithfulness", how committed we are in those relationships determines not only their success, but also our character.

Some relationships (friendships) are like fireworks... They are thrilling and exciting, beautiful, loud, put on a great entertaining show, stun your senses and are overall enjoyable. You light a fuse and off they go. The problem is, they last only a short while and once they are done, all that's left is ashes and smoke of what was...

Other relationships are more like a fireplace... Warm, inviting, cozy, and comforting, they require some work such as adding wood to the fire to keep it consistent, but the point is, it lasts!!! It's not the BIG BANG and BOOM, it's over, kind of a relationship, but a slow and steady one that gives off heat as well as light and welcomes someone to come in, stay awhile and share their whole life with you, not just the short lived, exciting parts.

Being faithful in life means having very little room for selfish behavior (which is fickle and ever changing, depending on mood and circumstances), persevering in hard times and simply not giving up on yourself, God, and other people... Seriously, I think it's by far the most important quality a person can have because it makes them "safe", trustworthy, reliable and secure to be around. Success may not always equal being faithful, but being faithful ensures success :)

2 comments:

Shadi Paulo said...

I found the idea of God having a "mood" an interesting notion. Are we moody because we are imperfect reflections of God, or is moodiness a part of that reflection (I don't mean to use the term in the colloquial manner of erratically changing moods, but more in the sense that we do exist in different emotional states over time)? And how subject is God to those states? Differing emotional states lead any relationship to be contingent on two sets of changing variables. This would imply that the fireplace needs tending by more than one person to maintain its hearthy qualities.

Anna said...

I don't think God has "moods" as much as He has emotions. The two are very different. Moods are unstable, while emotions "can be" stable. And yes, it does take two to tango... and tend to a fireplace :)